For The Love Of Shoes

by Salha Kaitesi | Oct 2, 2024 | Fashion | 6 comments

For as long as I can remember, shoes have always been a passion of mine. I fell in love with them as a young girl, enchanted by the elegance of heels and the way they could instantly transform an outfit. There’s something special about a beautiful pair of heels that draws me in. I could look at them for hours, appreciating their craftsmanship and the way they make you feel powerful and feminine at the same time.

Life has a funny way of surprising us

However, since my diagnosis with Chronic Myalgia in 2013, my relationship with shoes – particularly heels, has had to change. Wearing heels for long periods became difficult, and over time, I found myself relying more on flats and a variety of sneakers. At first, I missed the elegance of high heels, but what I didn’t expect was how much I’d grow to love my new shoe choices.

Sneakers, especially, have become a staple in my wardrobe. Whether it’s styling them with a casual outfit or even dressing them up for a more polished look, I’ve found a new way to express my style without sacrificing comfort. They have their charm, and I’ve learned to embrace the versatility they offer.

That’s not to say I’ve given up on heels entirely! There are still special moments where I’ll choose a pair of heels for a short event where I know I won’t be standing for long. The funny thing is, despite my day-to-day preference for foo-heels, I still adore heels. I’ve kept most of my collection, even though I haven’t worn many pairs in years.

Just last weekend, I dusted off a pair of heels I had only worn once – six years ago! To my surprise, they felt good, and I wasn’t uncomfortable wearing them, which has given me hope. Perhaps I’ll be able to wear heels a bit more often in the future. One step at a time, right?

In the meantime, I’m enjoying this journey of rediscovering how to balance style and comfort in my footwear. Who knew sneakers would end up being such a central part of my wardrobe? Life has a funny way of surprising us, but as long as I can still appreciate the beauty of a well-made pair of shoes, I’m happy.

Written by Salha Kaitesi

6 Comments

6 Comments

  1. Gilbert Tucker

    Shoes are sexy man!

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  2. Ray

    Salha, your heartfelt journey through your love for shoes is both inspiring and relatable. Your ability to adapt and rediscover style amidst life’s challenges reflects resilience and creativity. The vivid passion you pour into each reflection makes this piece truly captivating. Thank you for sharing such a beautifully crafted story!

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    • Salha Kaitesi

      That’s made my day Ray! Thank you very much for taking the time to read my blog and leave a comment. It’s people like you that make me want to keep on blogging and sharing content.

      Reply
  3. Miya

    It’s amazing how sneakers can blend comfort and style so effortlessly. If you’re looking for some fresh, stylish options to add to your wardrobe, be sure to check out Eternce – we’ve got some great pieces that pair well with any look, whether you’re rocking sneakers or heels

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  4. kunal

    It’s amazing how sneakers can blend comfort and style so effortlessly. If you’re looking for some fresh, stylish options to add to your wardrobe, be sure to check out Eternce – we’ve got some great pieces that pair well with any look, whether you’re rocking sneakers or heels

    Reply

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